Sex & Spirituality Column: Sex and Relationships in the New Energy

By Sarah Biermann

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“You have come to experience this reality and these bodies for a reason. It is not because they are so miserable. The New Age movement, rooted in the ascetic beliefs of denial of the body, has led you to not trust the pleasures of the body. This is a shame. From this side, we wish to experience your bodily pleasures. Yes, we have a sense of oneness that you lack on Earth, yet it is your illusion of separation that allows you to come together as two. You only get the physical sensations of the body if you have a body! The experience of being really hungry and finally getting to eat something absolutely delicious is so fabulous, and it can only happen in body. The amazing pleasure of touch of another’s body can only happen if you have a body. We do not have the luxury of the illusion of a body, a limited, physical thing on this side. Yet you hate your bodies. You judge your bodies. You abhor your bodies. You can’t wait to get to the point when you no longer need to reincarnate and can get in the ‘rarified realm of spirit’.

Silly fools!

First because you cannot finish your cycle on Earth until you truly appreciate the and embody the physical and second because you are missing out on so many lovely feelings and experiences.

Sex is not just the act of intercourse. It is pleasure, fun, life force, communion with others and with Nature, and respect and adoration of the body.”

- As channeled from Count Saint Germain

There are three major implants that we created and/or accepted to experience 3-D life here on Earth. These programs have affected all areas of our lives but I will focus on relationship and sex. These implants are:

1. No-choice (instead of Choice)
2. Susceptibility (instead of Sovereignty)
3. Struggle and Effort (instead of Pleasure and Ease)

The first limitation we agreed to is the No-choice Implant. Without this program in place we had infinite choice. The fear of death did not exist and we could play with life freely. If what resulted was not desirable then we would choose again. With the implant in place, most of the time we feel as if we have no choice. “I have to go to work/go home at Christmas etc." If we do have the option to choose then we are terrified that we will make the wrong choice. It seems as if once a choice is made we have to stick to it. Sometimes we will expend huge amounts of energy defending a choice so that we can be “right”. Think of how many people stayed married so that they don’t have to feel like they made a mistake, a wrong choice.

Because we feel our choices are permanent they can become really significant and heavy. We try to imagine all the possible results and ramifications of each decision and end up stuck. It’s the Scarlett O’Hara method, “I’ll think about that tomorrow.” In the Metaphysical community this shows up as, "I'll let my Higher Self/Spirit/The Universe show me the right way." But that’s a choice in itself; it is choosing to not consciously create your life. It is time to remove the separation between the self and the Higher Self. It is time to be our whole self. How many times have you chosen “no choice” as a way of avoiding making a choice?

I’m sure you are already thinking about how this implant affects your relationships, from family, to co-workers to lovers. The beauty of it is that the implant makes it seem so reasonable to have to make certain choices only. “Mom and Dad would be so hurt if I didn’t come for Christmas.” “If I say no to sex with my wife then she’ll want to know why and it will lead to me having to tell her how angry I am at her and then we’ll have to discuss the ‘real’ issue and once that comes out then she’ll realize how unhappy I am and we’ll have to discuss divorce and then I might actually have to leave her and I can’t do that because of the children and then…” You get the picture.

From Count Saint Germain

“You can live your life full of sex! This does not mean that you will be having intercourse all the time. Remember, sex is not intercourse. Have you danced lately, just for the pleasure of it? Have you felt the deep and subtle ecstasy from the scent of a rose? Do not get caught in the old energy rules and regulations of sex. You can enjoy an exchange of yummy sexual energy, a flirtation, a touch and “Nothing happens next!” Anytime you find yourself saying “If I do that then he’ll think that I want to have sex (meaning intercourse) with him”, or something like that then you are setting up a limitation to your experiencing sex. Imagine a world in which you always had choice. You may feel like kissing someone and later be done with it. You can choose later whether you want to kiss more, go for a walk, have a bath or get more intimate physically. No judgments on any choice. Ah, wouldn’t that be nice! "

The second major implant is the Susceptibility Implant. This implant makes it seem that we are not sovereign. It creates a situation where your own energy can be affected and threatened by other people. It is the cause of all the energy stealing and manipulation. It becomes possible for someone else’s “negative energy” to hurt you. Everyone has been around people who “drain their energy” or others who make them feel energized. While this is only an illusion, it is a “very real” illusion. By that I mean it is a huge part of Mass Consciousness. The catch 22 is that the implant makes you susceptible to Mass Consciousness and Mass Consciousness programs you to be susceptible!

One of the processes in the Expanding Your Being Meditation is to expand your sense of self to be as big as the solar system and imagine your own sun as your center. It is an amazing process that helps un-create the Susceptibility Implant. This sun is your sovereign and infinite source of power and energy. It is also the conduit to accessing all the wisdom and knowing of the universe. It is all within you! This is the truth of our beings that is hidden by the implants and illusions of this reality.

Because of the Susceptibility Implant we can be affected by other people's energies. And so we have built energetic shields and boundaries to protect ourselves. And because we have no choice and feel we can’t say “no” sometimes, we have used boundaries to enable us to say “no”. How many times have you heard (or said) that if you don’t have boundaries, then people will “walk all over you”? The loss of Choice and Sovereignty has left us with a sad situation. In order to have choice we have to separate from (put up boundaries to) our loved ones. Why can’t we just say “no thanks” while still being lovingly connected?

Count Saint Germain continued…

“The way sex is done on this planet is about give and take. People put their energy into others and take energy from others. It is all based on a lack. People do not experience already having everything that they need so they look to another to get that thing. Once you get the sovereignty thing, then is will be different.

Because sex is currently done from the give and take program, people can be threatened by their lover “taking too much” or by “giving too much of themselves”. And you don’t want your partner to give it to someone else because you need it. And you don’t want your partner to receive it from someone else because they might not need you anymore.

Removing the susceptibility and no-choice implants will automatically and significantly affect people’s sexual expression”.

It feels so good to fall in love because it is the closest you can get (with the Implant) to the feeling of being Sovereign and complete. You know something is missing and for a little while the other seems to fill the missing spot.

When the Susceptibility Implant is un-created then you no longer need another to feel good and complete. Then you can come together because it is pleasurable and fun! The game of energy give and take has many complicated manifestations. There are many implants that support it, including the “Soul Mate” implant. Though there are many branches, the tree has only one root system, the Susceptibility Implant. If you remove that, then you no longer need to worry about pruning the branches for they are gone.

The third implant is the Struggle and Effort Implant. This implant is what makes something more valuable if it is worked for than if it comes easily. Imagine... if we were all in bliss all the time, then we would never get any work done. There would never be any striving or effort to achieve a goal (usually the goal is some pleasurable thing). Imagine if everyone were in a constant state of orgasmic bliss, would anybody do anything? This is the implant.

More form Count Saint Germain

“From the other side of the veil it is the opposite. We do things not because these things have a promise or at lease possibility of providing some pleasure, but because they are pleasurable! Keep in mind that without a body, orgasm is different. You have so little of it (orgasmic bliss) that when you do allow yourself to have it, you jam a days worth (or week or month etc, depending on how little pleasure you allow yourselves) into a few seconds. And you contract it down, not just in time but also in space. Human orgasm is typically a tightening, the focus of awareness gets smaller and smaller until it’s just in one (small) part of the body. There is a constant deficit of this feeling and so the experience is hoarded and coveted. It is jealously guarded.”

Stay conscious and aware. Do not give someone something they do not wish to receive. If everyone has choice, everyone is sovereign and everyone can perceive others energy without being harmed by it then sex is mutual sharing with no desired result other than to enjoy themselves and each other. Whatever happens is OK. If they move together it is good, if they move on, it’s good. No one loses because no one is susceptible to loss.”

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About the Columnist

Sarah Biermann is an internationally renowned intuitive counselor and teacher. She is the founder of ImagiCreation work. It starts with going into the Expanded State. This is a very pleasant shift in consciousness that allows us to perceive, clear and transform huge amounts of energy (implants, belief systems, mental and emotional patterns, past lives, vows and agreements and more) using the language of the Unconscious Mind. Please see her website http://limitless-one.com/ for more information. You will find many free articles and channels.