Suzanna Axisa was in Singapore during April and we did a Questions and Answers session with Lanto for their Contact Talk Radio show, Lanto's Lantern. Here's the first part of the channeling on self love vs selfishness, financial difficulties and fears.

Audio

Transcript

Well, we are having such a lovely time. It is wonderful to be able to do our work in this way and to see so many of you and also of course to help so many of you because that is why we are working at this time with this channel. Her body suffers. It is not an easy work that she does. There are many demands on her physically and on her time. But she too loves to work. She says that it is worth all the pain and discomfort that she feels in her body. So, we are to use her words very happy bunny.

And now we are here in this marvelous state of Singapore and we know we will do wonderful work here and during our time here, we will also be in Malaysia which is very exciting. We are really looking forward to being there and to seeing the souls there, who are like so many of you on the earth plane this time, getting very serious about your ascension process, moving forward honouring your contract, learning to love yourself as your first step.

So we have some questions from these two souls here in Singapore who are doing the most marvelous work, not only on the ezine, as you called it the Cosmic Lighthouse, but also in welcoming teachers here from all around the world, making it possible for them to come and bring our work here. So our great thanks go to them.

But we know you have questions for us, so please let us have your first question.

Self love is where you honour your needs first in a way that honours others around you which does no harm.

Lee: Well, I have always wondered if there is a difference at all between self love and selfishness. Could you explain, master?

Lanto: Well, there is a great difference. There is the difference between the north pole and the south pole. There is the difference between this planet Earth and Mars. They could not be more dissimilar if you like. The very easiest way to explain this in your words is this. Self love is where you honour your needs first in a way that honours others around you which does no harm. It may cause a little discomfort as the soul thinks well I want them to help and they say no. So what am I going to do now? But it honours that soul’s development because it honours your needs. So that is self love.

Selfishness is where you put your desires first, not your needs but your desires first, in a way that neither honours you nor those around you. So it can create pain and it can also create karma. So loving yourself or self-love does not create karma. It can create karma in the sense of negative karma, we mean here. It can, if you like, create good karma. It can certainly release the karma that needs to be repaid. Because it says I honour my needs, I honour my own development, I honour the reconnection with my master, the master within me and I honour my contract in a way that helps you honour yours.

Never forget that your only responsibility is to yourself. That is your first responsibility. If you are a parent, then you have responsibility to your children but your first responsibility, the most important responsibility is towards honouring your own needs, the needs of your contract, the needs of your soul, the need you have to reconnect the master in each and every one of you. By doing that, you can do no harm, you can only do good. Because what you are doing by honouring these needs within yourself is by allowing others to learn their lessons. You allow others to reconnect with the masters that is in themselves so no harm can come from self-love, only good, a great deal of good. But a great deal of harm can be done through selfishness. You can stop another learning their lesson. You can create karma that then needs to be repaid.

So can you see the difference? They really are enormous differences. They could not be more different.

Lee: So in a way, we can say that self love is done out of love whereas selfishness is very much done out of fear, perhaps?

Lanto: That is a very good way of putting it. Yes, self-love comes from compassion. It comes from pure love, the love of the divine. Selfishness does not. As you say, it comes from fear. It comes from the fear that I can’t help you because I don’t have enough time. So your fear is that you don’t have enough time. And that is just one example, there are many. I don’t want to help you because I am angry with you. Well, anger is fear.

So if there are fears within lightworkers about not having enough, then this will manifest in financial difficulties.

Lee: Ok, and many lightworkers at this point of time find it rather difficult financially. I wonder why is that so? Is it because they have no self love or is it just that this point in time, during the transition, that it is necessary for lightworkers to go through this difficult period?

Lanto: Well, that is a very good question. And there is no one answer to it. The first thing to say is that of course during this time of accelerated changes which are being caused by the photon belt, as you called it, all the fears that lie deep within each and every soul on this planet are being brought to the surface because they need to be released. So if there are fears within lightworkers about not having enough, then this will manifest in financial difficulties.

If there is a fear that you are not worthy enough, that you have difficulties connecting with the master within you because you have difficulties believing that each and every one of you is a master, then of course, that will create blocks in your manifesting. If you are still living in poverty consciousness, you still have the belief which many of you do, that spiritual work and abundance, at least financial abundance, do not go together, then this will manifest itself in a lack of abundance, particularly in financial abundance. So look at your fears.

Also, there is another aspect to this. Those of you who know that you clear others, need to learn to release the negative emotions that you absorb from others. You need to learn to release them as quickly as possible. Clear them from your energy field so that these do not block you because they stick to you. That is the best way to describe it. They stick to your energy and so they block your ability to manifest and to accept the abundance that we bring to you.

So there are many things you need to look at and to be aware of. Are you taking on board energy which is not yours? Are you absorbing it into your energy field? If you are, then release it as quickly as you can. Look at what fears you still have in you. Release those as quickly as you can, particularly if they are based in poverty consciousness, or a sense of unworthiness. This is extremely deep in many of you. You may not think that you have this. But if you are not creating abundance in every way, then it is very likely that you still have this within your energy and it needs to come out.

And so we hope that has helped?

Lee: Yes, and some have said that if we ourselves, as lightworkers, do not have that particular fear in the first place, even if we are near to clients who have negativity, we should not be taking on that negativity. So in a way, whatever negativity we come into contact with becomes a mirror for us. It is actually a trigger for our own fears. Is that correct?

Lanto: Indeed and as more and more souls are beginning to say my life does not work and so I will look to other ways to make my life work and they come to you. So you are increasingly being presented with clients who are very deeply struggling with very deep fears, very profound fears that are released in our energies. So as we found on Sunday, in the fair, they simply sat in our energies and started to cry as we help them bring to the surface the many hidden fears that they are too afraid to voice and to look at.

So many fears are coming to the surface now and these fears of your clients are, as you have quite rightly said, Lee, being the mirror for the fears that are left in you the lightworkers. So you are being brought a gift from us in spirit. You are being brought abundance in your lesson because you are being given the opportunity to see that you have some of these fear-based energies still within you and you need to release it.

And there are many ways in which to release it. If you are working with clients, then before you do so, ask us to help you release that energy which is not yours, as quickly as possible and as safely as possible from your energy. As soon as you can, get in a bath, or preferably under a shower, and wash the energy from you. Clear energy by using singing bowls, or flower essences, or crystals and clean your crystal very very regularly so that they can work as effectively with you as possible. And by this, we include your crystal jewellery. Do as much as you can to help the cleaning process.

But you are quite right, yes, clients are coming to you, your colleagues in your offices and your workers are coming to talk to you and they are mirroring for you your fears and you know this immediately. Because if what someone says irritates you or angers you or makes you afraid or create impatience within you, you know that what has been said has been brought to you by we in spirit, to help you understand that there is negative energy within you that needs to be cleared. So thank the soul who has brought it to you. Thank them for their love and their generosity and then clean, clean, clean and ask us for help when you do it.

The second part will be published in July issue.

About the Channel

Suzanna Axisa We all have a lighthouse in our lives – someone to guide us through the storms and act as the beacon to show us the way through the fog, the rocks and the waves to safety.    Born to a 15-year old schizophrenic mother and violent father, Suzanna’s childhood allowed her to experience the whole range of storms as a ‘guest’ of numerous state homes and private families. She escaped to university at the age of 19 and spent the next twenty years of her life alternating between trying to make sense of and denying her childhood.  At the age of 40 a heart attack brought her face to face with the decision to live or die.  Determined not to die before she had led the life she knew was waiting for her, she set out on her road to recovery and the realisation of how wonderful life can be when we honour our gifts.  As a consultant to companies and individuals who want to change some aspect of their business or their lives, her personal path to healing makes her uniquely equipped to help you. So, if you, like her, know that a life of joy and abundance is yours for the taking, all you need is a lighthouse to guide you. Website: www.axisalighthouseintuition.com Radio Show: www.contacttalkradio.com/hosts/suzannaaxisa.htm