Question: Dear Neale: My question has to do with creating one’s dreams. It is often said that one must “let go,” yet how do I let go of what I want to create in my life? My dreams never seem to be fulfilled without a lot of devotion. I’ve let go of many dreams, and it’s only led to a very disappointing experience of life. Also, how does one really know God—or chocolate, let’s say—with only a concept and not the experience? And similarly, how do I truly accept that the Universe is just and fair if I have no experience of it being so? I think trying to convince my self of these things is a form of self deception. M.H.,Chicago, IL.

http://blog.beliefnet.com/conversationswithgod/2008/05/should-we-let-go-of-our-dreams.html